Flowers

From a book I am reading called “The Blooming of a Lotus”:

A human being should be as fresh as a flower, for indeed we are one species of flower in the garden of all phenomena.  We only need to look at the beauty of children to see that human beings are flowers.  Two round eyes are flowers.  The clear complexion of the face with its gentle forehead is a flower.  The two hands are a flower… It is only because we worry that our foreheads become wrinkled.  It is only because we cry so much and pass so many sleepless nights that our eyes are clouded.  We breathe in to restore the flower in us.  This in-breath bring the flower in us back to life.  The out-breath helps us be aware that we have the capacity to be, and are now, fresh as a flower.  This awareness waters our flower;  this is the practice of loving-kindness meditation toward ourselves.”

We’re Jammin’

Everyone knows that you can’t force a blog if you’re not feeling it.  But here’s an update: I am loving summer and it is loving me back!

 

Words

I could say so much about words.

Why is “fuck” a “bad” word?  Could “love” ever be a “bad” word??
If you live in America, or anywhere, for that matter, you know that the McDonalds slogan is “I’m lovin’ it”.  How is it okay for them to blatantly misrepresent “love” like that?  ”Lovin’ McDonalds” is a definitely a bad thing.  Thus the word “love” is bad, in that sentence.  If I “love” my family, how can I “love” McDonalds?  It makes ZERO sense.  Why is it so acceptable to use the word “love” to mean such different things?
What’s the more intelligent response to this question:  ”How do you feel about terrorism?”
A1:  ”It’s fucked up.”
A2: “I’m lovin’ it.”
Now if you get to the basic root meaning of the two sentences by considering the meaning of the words, you will unbiasedly determine that A1 is obviously more intelligent than A2 because it uses the most accurate depiction of terrorism by calling it “disturbing/obtrusive/wrong“.  And A2, has an opinion that could technically be unacceptable because of the true definition of “love“.  I know that the public opinion would agree with A2, but they wouldn’t agree with the chosen word “fucked” because of this idea in their heads that a word can be offensive.  If this is the case, then I take offense to the word love being misused by so many, especially McDonalds.  I also want to call them out for using the word “happy” so much.  ”Happy” Meals should be named “Lots of bad stuff” Meals.  And their slogan should be “I’m addicted to it.”

The word “addicted” is another one I would like to expand upon.  We all know that being addicted is a “bad” thing.  Being devoted is one thing, but addiction is something different.  It usually means that one does not have control over whether or not they do something.  It’s a compulsion, they must, or they will suffer some sort of withdrawal.  So why is it that we chastise people who are addicted to drugs, gambling, alcohol, etc. at the same time we see billboard ads for “addictively good chocolate.”

I don’t have the answers to my questions about words.  I know that I misuse words sometimes, and I find my language tendencies often mirror those I am with.  When I am around people who use strong language that some might consider “bad”, I am more inclined to do the same.  When I am around people who are easily offended by such words, I keep them inside and replace them with words that will get my point across most efficiently.
I understand our desire to have “bad” words, but if we must enforce rules upon those who use them, we should also move to have some sacred “good” words that we cherish.  Those who regard the word “fuck” as “bad” should stand up for “love” and condemn the misrepresentation of it in our lives.

KINECT

The Universe connects with itself when we dance to music, when we fall in love, and when we help someone.  This connection generates strong feelings that we call “happiness” “excitement” “peace” and “passion”.  But I believe in the idea that all those feelings are really one true feeling, which is LOVE.  When the universe connects with itself we feel LOVE.  And LOVE is the highest form.  In it’s purest nature, LOVE is what binds everything as ONE.   ONE LOVE.

We seek to find “happiness” in this life through whatever means we can.  Some people are confused that think that material gain is the way to sustained happiness.  But it’s been proven over and over again that it is a fleeting feeling and never truly satisfying.  I am inclined to believe that the only way to true happiness is to find out how to LOVE.  Or figure out how to let your governing force connect with itself, (if that helps).

When we CONNECT with nature, through any activity- from simply admiring a tree, to swimming in a lake- we are expanding the energy that binds the universe.
The Universe has created so much and continues to use its infinite organizing abilities to make seemingly magical things happen.  We are a living vessel for the universe to express and enjoy itself in innumerable ways.

Our egos tend to get in the way of our infinite energy source though.  When we start attending to our ego needs is when we mistake the idea that material possessions and outward appearances will bring us “happiness”.

I invite you to CONNECT today.  Physically or mentally we should be connecting to the universe in all that we do.  LOVE is an emotion greater than happiness.  Emotion is a vibration that you feel physically, but in a somewhat intangible way.  The first step to feeling sustained LOVE is letting go of our ego and allowing in the LIGHT.

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ColoRADo

Tonight is my last night in this beautiful state.   I have enjoyed the amazing weather which has really complimented the inescapably enormous blue skies and lovingly placed white clouds each day. 
I have let my eyes feast upon the breathtakingly beautiful horizon, where the immense mountains, many still capped with snow, meet the calm sky.
During the time I spent camping (two nights) my thoughts were simple and focused on the serene nature of my surroundings.  As the tall evergreen trees reached toward the sun I contemplated the importance of standing strong and upright, even on steepest slopes of the mountains. 
One of my favorite things to do as I sat peacefully on the rocks, was to watch the birds from above.  Birds-eye views aren’t just for the birds on these mountains.. Everything is equal.  Acoordingly so, we must never view ourselves as superior to nature.  We are not invincible, our techonology is not infallible, and we are, in fact, the weakest link in the chain of the eco-system.  Not only would we easily be destroyed by nature, we are doing it to ourselves without the ability to stop.  Our role as humans in nature has been lost with the adoption of materialistic life-styles.  Even those who think themselves so highly because they spend time in nature, do not take the steps necessary to reverse the effects of our destruction.

My experience here has been RAD to say the least.  I have thought about a lot and learned some things a long the way.  I know I’ll be back- and maybe next time, I’ll stay.

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Hair Tomorrow, Gone Today

Okay so as you know, I raised money for St. Baldrick’s Foundation which supports children’s cancer research, etc.  I think I have raised about $700 so far which is sweet!  And as of Saturday I am officially bald!  woop!  I love it!  I love how it feels and how free I feel.  I know I didn’t have much hair to begin with but this is completely different.  I am not my hair, as India>Arie put it.  Now I can save even MORE water in the shower.  I think it looks good, I think a lot of girls would!  I wish more would just try it.  I know that it’s difficult to consider be bald but it’s a lot more difficult to consider it than when you actually do it, I’m sure.  Although, I can’t say for sure because I was pretty excited the whole time and now I’m thrilled.  Well enough jab- here’s a picture or twoooo—-

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happy earth day!

You know how sometimes your mom isn’t in the best mood?  Maybe because people are being hard on her and she is having negative things said about her all the time.  Maybe everyone always complains and she can never make people happy unless she is bright and warm and perfect- but then again, everyone has a different opinion of “perfect” so she always fails at being fully appreciated or respected.

How would YOU feel if that were the case?  It is the case when it comes to our Mother Nature.  It’s completely unfair and disrespectful for humans to complain about the weather (her mood).  The weather is dependent upon the atmosphere- and when there is so many negative vibrations and other pollutants sent out 24 hours a day, it makes for a very undesirable conditions.  Mother Nature has no control over how we act toward her – if anything we have more control over how she acts toward us- however, we fail to recognize or acknowledge this fact.  Rather, we spend more time griping than accepting the weather patterns and working with them or appreciating them.

I already talked about how wind can be used.  But everything, including rain, snow, hot, cold, etc. can be reframed from being seen in a negative light to a positive one.  I’m not going to go through all of the ways- but you should!  I encourage all people to stop caring so much about the temperature/humidity/precipitation.  Just stop letting it effect you on a daily basis!  Accept it for what it is and move on with your life.  Stop dwelling on what you can’t change and start thinking about what you CAN do!  Improve your own life and stop blaming the weather for being “bad”.    Maybe if we all started unconditionally LOVING Mother Nature, she would respond with less drama and more light.

You get what you give.  Simple as that.  SO cliche, but think about it.

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